My grandfather, I'm told, has a few days to live. This time I think it's legit. By "this time" I mean that he's been through a lot. Falls, heart attacks, wars and rumors of war. This time it's different.

Taking two "emergency" (for lack of a better word) days off of work to visit him.

I have no idea how to handle this sort of thing. I'm fine, I just don't know what to say to anyone else.